WHAT IS REALLY STOPPING YOU?

I have been working with several clients on the things that lock them in their lives and businesses.  We have taken their circumstances and shaken them upside down and the things that is always immediately apparent is that it is NEVER what seems like.  Most of us KNOW a lot.  We are experts in our fields, we are educated, we have experience and yet we still seem to hit walls.  On first glance we seem to be blocked by things like not enough money or time or resources.  When we look a little deeper, however, we begin to see a series of conversations and patterns that lurk in the background – unseen by the human eye – that runs the whole show for us.

Those conversations sound like:  I am not deserving, I am not worthy, I can’t do it, I don’t trust myself and/or others, etc.  They guide and direct everything we are up to in life causing our relationship, our businesses and our finances to take a guaranteed nosedive just as we seem to be moving forward.  Each individual has their own unique set of conversations that compose how their world looks for them.  Nothing is safe from them – they hide in the background tainting everything we do.  No one is exempt just some people have spotted them and observed how they work enough that they can catch them before they wreck havoc.

I have just watched one of my clients move from a place of absolute confusion and financial failure to beginning to live the life of her dreams, tripling her income and turning her relationship from a near divorce to a new honeymoon in two months time.  A new context + action inside than new context = outrageous results.  Transformation happens in a Nano-second – it doesn’t have to be a long drawn out process.  Inside a context shift all of life occurs differently and all the actions that are taken are literally taken by a “new human being”.

What are your barriers?  Can’t seem to have your company make a profit?  Can’t see to expand it?  Can’t seem to make all the money to enjoy the life you want?  Have relationships that don’t work or far les than you want them to?  Ready to move to a new level but keep hitting the same walls over and over?  When you are tired enough of it looking that way then it is definitely time to get a coach.  Better yet: go get one now and take yourself to the next level before you have to get sick and tired of where you are!

I so often get off the phone with a client and my eyes are welled up at the courage it took for them to reach out and take me on as a coach and the absolute miracles they are creating in their lives inside our partnership.  Magic?  No! I am highly trained and they are highly willing to be coachable for the sake of a new life.  I coach because the coaches in my life have been there along my journey to see what I couldn’t see and guide me through creating an unbelievable life.  It is my way to give back.  For those of you who are my clients:  THANK YOU FOR ALLOWING ME TO FULFILL ON MY LIFE’S PURPOSE!!!!

What Kind of Partner Do YOU Need?

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What Is It That You Won’t Give Up?

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What Are Your Strengths & What is Missing?

hat are your strengths? What is missing? One of the things I always have my clients take a look at is their strengths.  Mostly we don’t really take a tally of them.  We downplay them, we overlook them, we forget about them but somehow we manage to not be present to them.  A guarantee is…

What’s Love Got to do with IT?

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We Always Remember Our First

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